This is Karl, my beloved almost-eight-year-old cat. He has been part of our family since the age of 4 months, when he was a very shy, runty fellow. We adopted him from a lovely Russian lady who was fostering him.
Karl as a kitten
As I mentioned in a prior post, “Karl Loves Bernie,” Karl’s best friend was Magnus, who died at a very young age; he was also mothered by my late cat Panther. Both she and Magnus died in 2011. Since then. he hasn’t had that strong a bond with another cat. Until Bernie. Only that Bernie doesn’t seem to share in this love.
We adopted Bernie almost two weeks ago. Apparently, his owner died and he ended up at a pound in Paterson, New Jersey, then was moved to PetSmart by a rescue organization and resided there for almost two months.
Bernie is extremely timid, but Karl took a real shine to him. They even sniffed noses one morning and no hissing or growling transpired. My husband Lorin feeds them in our bedroom upstairs: they are locked in together so the other cats don’t steal their food. We started feeding Karl separately when it was apparent the other cats were bullying him out of his meals.
At around 5:15 this morning, I heard growling (Bernie) and plaintive sounds (Karl) from the guest room, where Bernie has been spending most of his time. Both of them were under the bed, Karl pleading with him to come out. If he were human, it might go like this, “Please, please, I love you. Why don’t you love me back?”
Bernie: “Leave me alone. I’m scared. I don’t trust you. Why did those damn humans bring me here?”
Lorin fed Karl in our room, and Bernie, in the guest room, but Karl barely touched his bowl. Lorin surmises that Karl is trying to win Bernie’s love with food and saves it for him. I don’t doubt it. Karl has lost a little weight over the last few days.
What to do?
Lorin is doing some research on the matter and hopefully things will work themselves out.
In the meantime, please keep your fingers and paws crossed for us!
Maybe Bernie’s afraid Karl is gay. Gracious, maybe Karl is gay!!
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Anything’s possible, Matt.
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Hmmm. I like the thought that Karl is trying to save his food for Bernie.. How sweet 🙂
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We’re babysitting Jonathan and Caribay’s new cat, Bits for a week. (the’re visiting mom in Florida) We’re using the Jackson Galaxy method of slow introduction. Feeling them through a screen….and very slow intro…but whenever they see each other,it’s meal time, or treats. Molly is not pleased that she has a visitor, even though he’s so sweet and playful, she just doesn’t seem happy. Cats have their own ways…I really hope Bernie comes around….Poor Karl. He’s really wanting a buddy! Hope things improve for your pride.
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Good luck with Molly and Bits. Things are starting to get better. I caught Bernie chasing Karl just now — they were playing!
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Aww…hope it all works out for them. Sweet of you to rescue those cats. ❤️
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How are they doing now?
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No fighting since Monday, but Karl still spends most of his time upstairs by himself. He’s always been a very nervous cat.
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